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How To Turbo Charge Your Conversations With Women
This is the bottom line: If you can’t carry on a cool conversation that moves things in the right direction, you won't ever be super successful with women~Let me cut to the chase: if you don't know how what to talk to girls about, and aren't able to carry on a good conversation, you can forget about being awesome with girls}. But if your conversation skills are lacking, don't worry - I can give you a few powerful tactics to help you out, and with some practice, you can become a master of conversing with girls. Don’t worry if you don’t have a natural “gift of gab.” With consistent effort and practice over time, you can get better results with women than your silver-tongued brethren. Once you develop the core skills that I'm about to explain, you'll be ready to strike up a conversation with a girl in virtually any situation.
If you have multiple ways to sustain a conversation, it creates more curiosity in the mind of a woman. When you use these methods of "creative conversation," she'll never know what you're going to say next - and this stimulates her curosity and interest in you. By keeping her guessing (and on her toes), you'll make sure she is never bored when talking to you - and boredom is probably the #1 "attraction killer" that will destroy your chances of hooking up. You don't need to talk about deep subjects. In fact, you can keep the conversation light and playful. But it must never be boring. The ability to engage her in a fun conversation, that branches out into unexpected areas, can be the key advantage you have over the other guys...and it's a surefire way to make her start feeling interested in you.
Let’s get started - here are the top 5 ways to keep a conversation moving forward:
1. Ask genuine, non-threatening questions
Most women are wary of PUA games, tactics or weird language from guys. Some of these PUA routines are in fact quite clever (and can be effective) - assuming she hasn't heard them before. But you must remember that any lines or routines you use must be congruent with your personality and body language. You must project confidence and playfulness. The most clever "pickup routine" in the world will fail miserably if the guy delivering it is fidgeting nervously and can't maintain eye contact. All you really need to do is ask authentic questions that demonstrate that you're sincerely interested in her (and her goals, personal interests, and perhaps a "hidden talent" or passion that you can get her to reveal. A woman needs to trust and feel safe around you before she’s willing to spend more time in a conversation. I would suggest that instead of trying to rely on lines or routines that you memorized in a book, show confidence by asking genuine questions and sharing genuine opinions.
2. Be perceptive, notice details, and be aware of your surroundings
When you get in the habit of paying attention to your surroundings - people, places and things - you’ll almost never run out of things to say. This can spark attraction in a woman, when she feels that you're confident enough to lead the conversation and you're tuned into your surroundings. Just make sure whatever you say is accurate and genuine, and you don’t have an agenda behind it. Women have built-in, finely-tuned BS detectors, and if she feels you’re not being truthful with her (or you’re saying something just to get her into bed)… it’s game over, and you’re done.
3. Keep it light (never let her see you sweat)
Women generally worry about small things more than men do. At any given time, you can assume that a girl has at least one thing on her mind that is causing her stress. As long as you can keep her smiling and having fun, so that she forgets about her other worries, you'll be a guy she wants to hang out with. Think of Hollywood icons such as Sylvester Stallone, George Clooney, Russell Crowe, Clint Eastwood, or John Wayne -- these guys never seemed worried or anxious, and were able to handle any situation that arose. And they added an occasional dose of good humor to show they were in control. A woman will follow your social lead, based on how you come across and make her feel. Women like being around guys who make them feel safe and secure - and you can do this by staying calm, cool and relaxed.
4. Listen actively (being a good listener can be even MORE important than knowing what to say next)
One of the best ways to keep a conversation going isn’t by being the smoothest talker, or monopolizing the conversation - but instead, being the best listener. Being a great listener might not come naturally to you, especially if you're an outgoing guy with a good sense of humor, who is used to being the center of attention when you're hanging out with your buddies. You might need to start biting your tongue and holding back, in order to let her do more of the talking. People like other people who let them talk, and women will respect and appreciate you more. When you practice being an active listener, you’ll become more relaxed in all social situations.
5. Stay “present” and in the moment
Men have a tendency to let their thoughts drift in a million different directions, rather than focusing on what's right in front of them -- in this case, a woman you want to connect with. If you're the type of guy who gets anxious or tongue-tied around hot girls, you might allow your thoughts to drift all over the place ("Does this girl like me?" "What if she has a boyfriend?" "Do I sound like a total dork?" Etc.). This mental chatter prevents you from being truly focused on the person or conversation at hand. For women it’s called being “present,” and it’s absolutely HUGE.
Stay focused on her and make a conscious effort to eliminate the mental chatter going on inside your head. This means you’re truly engaged in a conversation, contributing and giving genuine feedback. You aren’t nodding like a bobble head doll, or mindlessly saying “uh-huh” or “yeah” every so often. Women aren’t fooled at all when you do this. You'll seem apathetic (i.e. you really don't care about what she's saying), or just plain clueless and socially awkward. This certainly won't score you any points with her, and she'll probably want to excuse herself from the conversation before long.
Like any area of your life that is worth improving, you’ll have to put in time and effort to develop this skill - but the payoff in better business and personal relationships is HUGE. It’s the social equivalent of hitting a million-dollar jackpot in Vegas.
A final note: while becoming a great conversionalist is an important step towards becoming awesome with women, it's not the only weapon you need in your arsenal. I don't want you to spend years flailing around "in the wilderness" trying to apply these tactics without proper guidance. What you need is a thorough, comprehensive game plan which will help you go from the opening conversation, all the way to a successful seduction. In the long run, improving your overall level of confidence, and your lifestyle, will attract far more women than memorizing a few clever or sneaky "routines" to make a woman drop her guard. I do believe in good, solid information that can help you become the rare man who can attract - and keep - a quality woman in your life.
Check out the famous Mack Tactics book, and you'll learn the exact "blueprint" you need to make powerful, lasting changes in your lifestyle and attitude. The book Mack Tactics will teach you how to be incredibly clever and charming to the girls you talk to -- but it will also give you the tools you need to create the overall image and lifestyle that attracts women TO you. Why wait another day, or spend another Saturday night striking out and not getting the results you want.
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